A clean break is necessary for you to start to heal. You cant hold on to shame anymore trying to walk forward. Your perspective have to change; give your story a new meaning, Until you learn to see it not as a mistake, but as a learning, you will never let it go. Reframe the story. Ask yourself, “What is it that you learned?“
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And she wanted for her: A man who loves her the way God wants her to be treated--loved, cherished, respected. "Remember, He who finds a wife, finds a good thing.”
I did not know better; I dated very crappy. When you don’t know your value, you let someone else tell you what you are worth.You let this guy who treats you like crap, tell you that is good enough for you. The cure? If I have a crush on Jesus, and obsessed on getting to know him, then I would fall in love with who love is.
"Tam, scratch that goal of an idealized picture of a perfect instagrammable relationship you can have.” To which, through her answers, I learned an important lesson. Every good gifts comes from Above. But when we focus on the gift without thanking and worshipping the One who gave it, we miss the point.